Psychology: question-answer

Category: Tips for all occasions | 27 февраля 2015, 12:22

Separatist sentiment
A few months ago I got married, and wetemporarily live with my parents. From the beginning I agreed with my mother that we separately pay utility bills that they have with the Pope your refrigerator, but it still interferes with our lives. How to avoid it?

Insisting on separate budget and distancingparents, young couple, as a rule, is hoping that her stay on the territory of the older generation - a temporary phenomenon. But since no one can give exact dates, it is better not to aggravate the situation, »separatist sentiments.» Although parents and make notes, and knocking on the door at the wrong time, however, they showed hospitality. You must force yourself to act, taking into account the interests of the whole family, not skimping on grand gestures, like his mother's pay phone or a parent walking the dog. Keeping separate budget, try not to be separated from their parents psychologically, so as not to worsen the atmosphere.

Under the guise of independence

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We have a new staff member - amazinga handsome man, and even diluted. All the female half of the team is fighting for his attention. And I feel that in love for real. How to get around opponents?

In each, even the most beautiful and spoiledfemale attention man lives hunter. Therefore, participating in the mass race for the prize in the form of favors nice fellow, you risk being left unnoticed. Watch for their appearance, be visible and at the same time behave independently to the first handsome office even had no idea that you are trying for him. Try to find more common ground in their professional activities. This will allow you to bypass rivals, which rely only on the good figure and bright makeup.

It is unlikely that a man like a woman who takes him intrusive interest. It is important that he hunted for her, and not vice versa

The purity of honest

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I meet a young man recentlyfirst visited at his home. It turned out that he was a terrible slob! In the kitchen, the mountain of dirty dishes in the room a mess. Since then, I avoid meetings at his home, but do not hesitate to explain the reason. But it might be worth?

All people have different standards of cleanliness. Young people may not understand exactly what you do not like, as long as you do not say it. Try again and see a man in his »den» and tell surprising that he does not clean dishes. Make him feel uncomfortable. Of course, sloppy person is unlikely to turn into Neat, but at least understand that the coming of the beloved must be prepared.