Do not want? Do not eat!
My son is two and a half years. He is not eating. we may go What tricks - and include cartoons, and the whole performances with favorite feeding machines organize, nothing helps.
What to do? If the boy does not eat from birth, often sluggish, significantly behind in weight and height, the neurologist's consultation is required. If he does not wish to have only certain kinds of food, and candy and other treats are not refused, behaves actively, steadily gaining weight, it is necessary to resort to the methods of psychology. Firstly, it is necessary to completely eliminate the feeding of the baby all kinds of sweets. Second, stop any fun at the table. And most importantly, if you do not want to, let them not eat. It will take some time (patience), and he will start asking for food.
If a child behaves actively and steadily gaining weight, then worry about the fact that he does not eat, there is no reason.
The imaginary Invalid
Six year old daughter often complains of feeling unwell. What a headache, then knee, then something else. But it is written on his face: coming up with. I do not know how to react.
Скорее всего, жалобы на плохое самочувствие — способ привлечь к себе внимание взрослых. Если же вы уверены, что у девочки нет дефицита в любви и ласке, то действовать нужно так. Например, голова болит — нельзя до завтра смотреть мультфильмы, надо лечь в постель с компрессом на голове и не шевелиться. Болит коленка — игры на детской площадке отменяются! Относитесь к ее жалобам серьезно, но не утешайте ничем интересным. Зато, когда дочка чувствует себя хорошо, старайтесь сделать ее жизнь максимально увлекательной. В подходящий момент поговорите с девочкой о том, что вам кажутся преувеличенными ее жалобы и вы перестаете ей верить. Расскажите притчу про пастушка, который в шутку кричал: “Волки, волки!». Обычно дети хорошо понимают, о чем идет речь.
New things are not accepted!
I have a problem with my daughter. It is not in what does not want to dress up - get on the old jeans and a T-shirt stretched and said that she and so well. When I suggest to buy stylish things, even the same T-shirts, flatly refuses. She is 13 years old, it's time to be interested in trendy little things. How to reason with her?
Most likely, your little girl is not justindifferent to fashionable clothes, and all the forces trying to show how much she cares this side of life. Her style of dress - a kind of protest against the modern cult of things against your stubborn desire to dress her. The more you try to change the child, the more it will resist. Be patient and wait out this period. Pay as little attention to her appearance, do not tell her about the clothes. Surely the girl gradually starts to take an interest in her wardrobe.
