To develop a child's competence, it is necessaryprimarily to help him »tune in» to the working mood. You need to create for it an environment in which he could incorporate the reality: work - a good thing, an important and universally valid. In early childhood, he must make friends with the work and learn to see it as an important part of life, as well as affection, friends, fun.
God has already helped you in this task. Since its birth the child begins to perform some tasks. The baby rattle amused, already busy with important work, corresponding to the given period of life: he learns to hold in the hands of various objects and manage them. You must help the child to focus on his work, and to structure this experience even deeper dive into it. If you find that your child is more inclined to acquire skills skateboarding than do housework, you have to step in and help him to direct energy in the right direction.
Работа и профессия — важная часть жизни
Most of my friends doctors grew up in families of health workers. He I know whether this pattern confirmsstatistics, but the doctors do not dispute. I asked some of them why they chose this profession, and they all said the same thing: for the evening talks. Dad or Mom, or both of them talked at dinner about his work, and the children were fascinated by these stories, which dealt with surgery or a complex study, which helped establish the diagnosis, how the patient is happy newfound health. For them it was the most interesting endless series. Children grow up in a family where the older really loved his job, a good job with it, helping people, and experienced the greatest satisfaction from it.
Не у всех родители — хирурги-кардиологи, но почти все родители делают что-то нужное и полезное. Ребенок должен видеть, как взрослые увлечены своей работой. Интересные стороны вашей работы должны постоянно всплывать в семейном разговоре. Изначально ребенок воспринимает работу как разлучницу — родители уходят куда-то, и это плохо. Передавайте ребенку свой интерес к работу, свою увлеченность и даже разочарования. Пусть он видит, что вы любите его, но и работа для вас важна. Возьмите ребенка с собой на предприятие. Выступите у него в классе с рассказом о своем труде. Пусть ребенок инкорпорирует эмоциональный образ человека, нашедшего свое место в жизни.
