Наука подтверждает библейский принцип, согласно которому в нашей жизни наиболее важны отношения. Общение матери и ребенка существенно влияет на складывающуюся неврологическую структуру младенца. От отношения матери и ребенка зависит «хард-диск» развивающегося мозга, в том числе его основные функции: мышление, ориентирование в окружающем мире, восприятие и способность к суждению. Резкое нарушение этой связи в первые месяцы после рождения может отразиться на всей дальнейшей жизни человека.

Numerous data demonstrate thateven the mere survival of the baby depends on the existence of relations. In the most advanced cases, sometimes physically healthy babies can die without receiving the love and care of the mother or the person replacing her.

This early attachment, down betweenmother and child, is the deepest spiritual content. At the mother's breast Lord teaches the child to believe in Him (see Psalm 28: 9.). The process of perception of the mother's milk, maternal affection baby prepares to to accept the love and care of God. Pestuya her baby, the mother prepares it for the eternal, transcendental love. Motherboard embrace - the first, primordial image of love and trust.

Many experts have begun to express concernhow to excessive attachment and dependency in infancy have not generated the inability and the inability, and in adulthood to rely on himself. In fact the opposite is true: the child, who had the opportunity to live full emotional dependence on a loving and secure parent becomes stronger and stable. He absorbs the mother's love, and incorporates it gets enough reliability to independently and confidently deal with the outside world.

That is why the first year of life plays such an importantrole in the development of attachment. You will continue to be to help your child build a relationship with the outside world, but the most fundamental events occur in the first twelve months of his life.