Children from one to three years, and sometimes begin to show failure in time to fulfill the requests of adults. He may ignore the appeal of parents to him and to all say 'no'.
Children show their individuality through personaltotal denial. From an early age, they are discovering that they can exercise control over events. To assert their independence, they refused to do anything.
But a bad mood and negativity can beassociated with any disease symptoms. For example, a child's fever or illness is only the beginning of its manifestation. As well as boredom or fatigue. Therefore, you first need to evaluate the overall physical condition of the child, and then make a conclusion about the stubbornness and unwillingness to include contact of the child due to peculiarities of the child's psyche.
In most cases, the excitement of the obstinacy of children or unwillingness to fulfill orders from the parents of young children in vain.
The vagaries and stubborn child
? Audiences do not need to attribute capricious behavior pThe baby at his own expense. If he starts to be obstinate, or does not want to listen to you, then this does not mean that he is not treating you well. Demonstrating such behavior, he expresses protest because of his physical and spiritual forces, discovered by himself as a child.
Mom and Dad have a very good understanding of whatthe child can and can not do. What it does not depend on the wants or does not want to sleep, where and when to go to sleep. It is necessary to give the child a »free space» and then you can avoid the contentious relationship that can form in children and parents. Thus, you will give your child a certain amount of confidence that he can make their own decisions.
No need to install a lot of rules, and everylimitations. When it's a situation that requires obedience, it is necessary in advance if you have to hike to the store to warn the child about it. It is necessary to explain to him that soon you need to have to leave the house and that he had already stopped playing.
And stick to your decisions with firmness,when the time comes to submit to you the kid. And do not forget to praise it, if it is properly perceive the requirements you have for your child. Be sure to say you are glad that he agreed to go with you. It is necessary to explain to him why his obedience to need you now, if you want your child played your requests or requirements.
But if long enough, you can notcope with a whim and stubbornness of your offspring, or understand that by insisting can not help themselves and inflict harm on his own, in which case you need to turn to a psychologist.
The protest or unwillingness to fulfill your childrequest inevitably causes irritation, and it is important not to give the baby to feel it, so as not to exacerbate the conflict. Try to switch the baby attention to another subject - for example, it can be wear: Children's winter shoes from the latest collection is definitely for sure attract the attention of a small mod - or action that would cause him concern and relieve tension in the relationship with you. </p>
