Questions about sex and first experiments

Category: the Art of being a parent | 04 ноября 2015, 11:07

Fathers and mothers sometimes experience shock and stronglyupset when they discover that the neighborhood children play sexual games and their child is involved in them. Sex games and experiments - a common phenomenon for children aged 4 to 10 years. They want to compare yourself with others, so show each other their genitals behind closed doors. They experiment with different ways of urination: the girls get up, and the boys sit down. They giggle about words related to dressing procedures, as well as playing in the doctor and the nurse.

Sometimes these games so much upsetparents that they prohibit the child to play in them. This overly sharp reaction leads to the fact that the child's memory, these games are beginning to be associated with something dirty and horrible, and a healthy attitude towards sex issues can not be to bring on a sense of guilt and shame.

The best thing a parent can do - calmlydiscuss with the child the subject, answer their questions and give their explanations. Wise parents will not give this kind of incident of great importance, and not arranging child scenes, try to interest him in other activities.