There are a number of reasons why a child cannot interested in the problems of sex. Perhaps the natural life of the family does not awaken his interest in these issues. Perhaps he was the only child in the family or last child, has not experienced the influence of the birth of another brother or sister. Perhaps the child is trying to be »good», and at some point he had the impression that the »wrong» to ask questions of a certain kind. Another child has already received such information outside the family circle, may have experienced the embarrassment or ridicule, and therefore afraid to ask additional questions.
Whatever the reason, the child is not specifiedIssues that need the same care as a child, in this area too curious. There are many positive ways in which you can give a child sex education based on the facts of everyday life. You do not need to sit with a book in hand and a deep dive into the questions and answers. We have already discussed the first way - to teach the child the example of his younger little brothers and sisters. If a family does not have a new baby, go with your child to visit a friend who nursed a little, and let him look at him. You do not need to say anything.
Можно также учить ребенка, вывозя его в деревню, на лоно природы. Когда ребенок видит, как спариваются животные, у родителей появляется прекрасная возможность рассказать ему, что дети появляются на свет при участии мамы и папы. Родители могут также пояснить, что люди совокупляются иначе, нежели животные, так как мамы и папы любят друг друга. Поэтому они женятся, вместе живут и зачинают детей, которых также любят.
Most parents believe that doing their duty,simply offering your child: »If you have questions about sex, come to us and ask them.» However, this child never asks parents questions like these. Not enough to simply tell your child that he can contact you with questions. A good teacher sees its task is not to just sit and wait for the child mature issues, he will try to arouse his curiosity, he began to ask questions, try to do something more than just convey information. He wants to help every child learn and grow with desire and interest in exploring the surrounding beautiful world. A good teacher also understands that learning occurs gradually.
If parents do not say anything, and do not raiseIt does not affect this or that topic, so they do not perform their duty. For example, Christian parents can not wait as early as possible to share with the child their Christian beliefs. They show the child all that God has created in nature, and tell him how much God loves us and cares about us and how we can live in harmony with God. There are few Christian parents who do not want to talk to your child about God and the Bible, or waiting for it to take the initiative himself and ask relevant questions. On the contrary, the majority of Christian parents are willing to discuss with your child the most important concepts about God, faith and salvation. Why, then, they should be locked sexual issues in a separate room in which hangs a sign: »Do not be curious?» Print the questions from the prohibition of sex. If at first you have difficulty, read a book about sex, occupation or visit somehow promote their education in this field, to speak with ease on these topics, and every conversation will facilitate follow-up.