What to choose for the modern woman: career or family?

Category: Career | 02 апреля 2015, 12:25

This issue is now of concern to many Russian women. In the old days, even if you remember the Soviet times, now not so favorite generation of forty years, the man has always been considered the breadwinner in the family, it provided wealth and welfare, he could rely on his wife and children. The man who couldn't provide for his family, was considered a loser. Women in the USSR worked, nobody hides it, but only a few thought about the career (you may remember the excellent film "Office romance" and how the career impact on personal life of the protagonist); worked on wear women left without her husband who had to raise children, but still the government had provided all possible assistance; worked also those who weighed the usual female labor of the Soviet Housewives. We emphasize, then (in the USSR) women had many opportunities to change the family fortune for a living and a career is a and free the hospital, free kindergartens, and free medical care for both children and adults, is an opportunity to get the flat let in 10 years, but still to receive, and the confidence that her husband will not be fired from work...

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What we see in modern Russia? All paid, everything for the birth and the prenatal period need to pay, and maternity leave trying not to pay (that's a miracle!), the kindergartens are paid and they are not enough, health services are conditionally free (they are free under the policy, but only some, for something more serious than ciri on the heel, and have to pay a lot!). The unemployment situation is aggravated every year. The figures we see on job sites, and that the unemployment rate 3 – 5%, substantially underestimated, because the people working under the table, in fact, these same unemployed, they can be on the streets, without payment for their work, and absolutely no rights to justice. The state advocates work on white scheme, but so is ripping off small private enterprises, which give the greatest number of jobs that it makes no sense to work honestly. Because honestly they will not be able to pay people a salary equivalent to at least 15 000 per month, they will simply go bankrupt because of the tax burden, and pay the low, now he is 5205 roubles, for this money, full working day even a BEGGAR will not work. Do not count women who are in maternity leave, because most of them will not be able to return to the place of work where they worked, many private "shops" is not beneficial to young workers, because "they often leave in the decree, and to contain these decretis Oh, how expensive", are the words of one of Ipeshnikov. Skilled worker occupations are not many, because the government destroyed all the plants found on the territory of the former USSR was very much they provided people with a permanent stable job and confidence in the future. Towns are practically destroyed, because their entire infrastructure was tied to the local plant or factory, which now stand in ruins or put on separate premises merchants and dubious entrepreneurs. Men who, according to popular stereotypes, should "bring home the mammoth", rushing to find any suitable job, because now the choice of professions is small. It's either senior managers, where you can get only an acquaintance, and no matter how high your education only or incomplete secondary school, would be the recommendation from "hairy legs" and all will be solved. Either sellers are receiving too meager salary that she could live the average family of three people. Or porters and similar jobs, that is hard work, undermine human health.

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In such a situation remains to do woman? Yes, no one denies that the woman is the homemaker that her birth and upbringing of children, but... to live-then what? And her husband, often she doesn't see for weeks because he is still "mules" — unloads cars with coal, hauling logs to the sawmill, a broom waving in the early morning or late evening. Is it possible this way of modern man to name at least normal? Of course you can't. So you have the modern Russian woman to choose – career or family, but simply a banal choice to work and to help her husband, or sit at home and live in poverty. Here it is not even about careers and about what can go woman, her family lived a little better.


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