You think that you are not like everyone else? You think I don't like others? It seems that the opposite sex does not feel to you liking? The complexity of the family and at work? Are you tired of a string of problems?

THERE is a solution!
Greetings, dear reader! Thank you very much for your interest and desire to learn the material in this article. I'm sure it will be interesting and useful to You in many circumstances and will show an absolute different approach and fresh perspective about everything which is connected with complexes and problems.

For what would You better understand each other and the reading process were no problem, I want to say this: I don't consider myself a professional trainer in the field of personal growth and don't do any trainings on similar subjects. I am the simple and ordinary guy who wants to share their story and talk about what helped me to transform my life from boring routine into a bright and filled with daily holidays extravaganza.

The thing is that several years ago, I was to the horror of uptight, shy, and self-contained person. All my existence was like a life, but to stay one and the same day, but many times. Every time I woke up with thoughts about how and when this day is over, that together with him over these endless problems that seemed to follow me closely.

Then I realized one thing — you need to change something. I started buying books on how to become more confident in myself, read articles on the forums, not recorded seminars and trainings attended. In General, began to take confident steps towards a new life. Thus, having passed through a huge number of kinds of information, I applied received advice and recommendations for practice. And 2 years later I managed once and for all to end all complexes, and to transform your life into a celebration. And these efficient tips and tricks I want to share with You, Dear reader, in order to save you from spending your precious time to filter tons of information and search of that magic pill which as You can imagine, simply does not exist.

In this article I will share with you a completely new and fresh perspective on the very nature of all the complexes and problems of life. You will receive specific chips that will free You from all that trash once and for all. Everything you need will be in the moment of reading, it is disable in my head the "device" that is responsible for the analysis. Don't analyze and don't hesitate. Because you want the result? Isn't it? Then feel free to implement my recommendations and be confident in their effectiveness, because as I said above on this thread I already ate a dog and tried everything. Squeezed main concentrate of all the most useful and all You need to do, to absorb it).

Let's go!

And the first thing we start, this will be the topic of the nature of the complexes. I immediately and confidently declare — complexes do not exist and do not exist! None at all in nature! It's a hoax! Each of You has been and will remain a wonderful and unique PERSON that can achieve unprecedented heights and results.

All of these complexes, it is nothing but a product of the us your thoughts in the image that either we are someone compelled — be it media, society, friends, colleagues, etc... Or your own self-flagellation.

For example: Person, no matter guy or girl someone said this phrase, like, "Hey, primacy/th....etc.". What starts to happen? People usually react like this stimulus either aggressive or neutral. However, deep down he begins this phrase to try on and to position your image in accordance with the picture that emerges in his mind. What kind of picture is? It is different, but the image is approximately the same. Over time, if such hints we begin to hear again, the image is strengthened in the mind and literally materialize in reality. Irritants there are more and even advertising about pimples catches the eye more often. Here in this picture, I tried to illustrate the process of how it all starts.

The projector in this case is the generator of our thoughts. And here is the picture, this is the way that illuminates the projector. The scheme is similar to that of a regular movie theater: the projector's beam of light falling on film, displays the image on the screen. In this case, the complex "I have acne, and I don't like others" is just the same as this picture, which is directed and your thoughts. Is taken by me as an example of the complex with the "Prasada" can be any other. Each for himself will decide.

Yes, all is well). While you are waiting for something from the "correct breathing techniques" and "certain poses, allowing you to let in your chakras cosmic energy"? )))) This is NOT and never WILL be. I tried, and I can say that all sorts of teachings on the theme of "Feng Shui" specifically in this case, the damn thing is not working.

Works surprisingly easy and practical way. Tell me what you need to do tomorrow to get rid of the complex and to check my words in practice.

"Take-out from your projector negative picture-the picture and replace it with what genuinely want to get. For example, replace "the image of a successful person that everyone likes and whom you respect". Accordingly, each again, for what he wants. Which of all this it turns out the conclusion? If you highlight your thoughts negative expectations, they happen in our lives. And if you do Vice versa? Replace negative to positive, and therefore get what they want). Agree, it's so easy? Your goal is the systematic spinning in thoughts the image that you want to get. Daily spin in my mind the picture of the end result, live in it and continue to do it at least a week. I promise you will be things that can carry the roof and sometimes it can even seem that the ground is slipping from under my feet. You will be amazed by this simple and miraculous technique.

The most difficult thing in this business, is not to forget about the desired way and stubbornly look to the future and seeing himself a completely different person!

Always remember that external data is not an indicator. You can replace it with the fascination that is many times more important and more valuable. I know men and women whom nature has not endowed model looks, but as soon as they only have to open your mouth and start to say anything as the man sitting in front turned into their fan. He just fell in love and he didn't care about the quality. That's it).

Not the ability to speak publicly and pronounce oratorical speech, you can replace the ability to listen. This is a very rare and valuable quality.

Physical inferiority can be replaced by confidence. One of my friends weighs just 55 kg And height 165 cm, However, healthy brutes simply shy away, because so much of the spirit that no muscles were not around.

So, Dear reader I recommend to do this: stay a little alone with yourself. Try to hear the voice of your soul. Understand what she wants? Understand the absurdity and senselessness of everything that makes you feel confident. Write, all the complexes on a piece of paper (be sure to write with a pen on paper) and burn this sheet to hell. Take a white, clean sheet of paper and write on it what kind of person you want to be. Write in detail. Anything don't be shy — this is important.

Can you describe in detail your lifestyle, how you travel, the kind of car I drive, etc. Can make a collage of dreams — this tool helped me to realize many of my goals. Take a large poster Board and place on it pictures and images the life that will soon be yours. And enjoy whenever your look will be to get on this picture. You'll see how things start to change for the better.

The complexes we have understood and we now turn to the second part, devoted to the theme of life's problems and difficulties.

And I'll start with the painfully familiar and each of the law — the "Law of Meanness".

Why him? Because this law is the main catalyst of the whole subsequent chain problems following after him.

Imagine the following scene:

"People were looking for work and in one of the Newspapers found what he needed — well-paid and prestigious position at a large, growing company. He frantically circled the ad with a pen, then dialed the telephone number and with a tremor in his voice started the dialogue with the employer. He in turn made an appointment for an interview and decision on hiring. People counting the clock, waiting for this long-awaited moment when his foot enters the threshold of the office and after the interview, hand the BARE will sign an employment contract. And begins literally at all times. Attaches excessive importance to this process. In his head a lot of thoughts, — "what if he takes someone else?", "maybe I'm not the right candidate", "what if he doesn't like and then what?"...Sound familiar?))

Go ahead.

There came hour, when out of the house and go to the interview. When you exit the door and begins to wedge it some how struggling to close down the flight of stairs, one from prying neighbors and starts "doing brains" with questions...Then, getting into the car the man rapidly picking up speed as it starts its movement to the specified address. On his way there are traffic jams...stopped by a policeman and starts to get their requests to open the hood, trunk, etc. a Person feels that he is already late and way off time. Begins even more nervous. Approaching the office building, understands that within a radius of 500 meters there is not one place where he could Park your car. You have to Park the car far from the office and escape on foot. He does just that. Just running headlong, not seeing anyone or anything around. One goal — to catch. But there it was. On the way there is another obstacle in the form of slowly reaching grandmothers, cyclists, etc. And finally came to the coveted office door, knocking and opening it he hears this phrase, "Dear people's, our meeting was scheduled for 15.00, 15.30...now I won't even talk to You, because I don't want employees who even at their first meeting late! Goodbye.

Poor guy comes out with peniksen mood and goes to her car crying, — "what a life", "what bad luck"...Ehhh Accumulated anger from failure haunts it.he becomes nervous and irritable.

And as often happens, he begins to look for blame. Coming home on a level place formed a row with his wife quarrel with each other, and well other ensuing circumstances.

This situation is familiar to you? Circumstances of course each had his own, but the overall plot remains unchanged.

And all of this would have happened if this person did not attach much IMPORTANCE to this interview!

Conclusion: If You have something or someone to attach excessive importance, you will succeed in contrast to your expectations. And even if you succeed, it will cost you anywhere in lost time, money and nerves. So You, Dear reader, I recommend relying on your past experience — again simple and clear truth. Forget the IMPORTANCE! It should no longer be in your life.

In the world everything is in harmony and is in balance. Giving excessive importance you place in this harmony of the imbalance which is bound to be eliminated and suppressed. I don't know the laws of the universe, but I say this with iron confidence, as I checked it on my own skin. My recommendations: If you take the basis for the exemplary case of employment, here's what you need to do:

First of all, immediately take and imagine yourself in the place that requires the employee. Just close your eyes and imagine this picture. If presenting yourself in this manner, you will feel a lift, joy and energy — then boldly go to an interview, and be confident that you will be charged. Your, You're not going anywhere. But if you are attracted only by the salary and you are guided by she, know that of fun you get. You'll get into a routine and never enough money will not suffice.

And if we consider the IMPORTANCE of other aspects, then by analogy can now understand what is going to happen.

In fact, new, I said nothing. It really is located on the surface of the truth. I only show them the nature and the backside, and you make your own conclusions.

And along with the sense of importance is no less insidious and dangerous feeling — a feeling of GUILT.
Conclusion do immediately: If you experience in relation to any event or occasion, make sure you wait for the punishment! It is an axiom. Wine begets punishment.

Let us consider precisely such a situation: since the first case was linked with the job, then why go far? Now I'll show you a picture of how guilt affect your relationship with the Boss and colleagues.

"You are sitting in your chair in front of the monitor screen and with a serious face doing something. Here breaks the head into your office and throws on the table a stack of papers with the words, — "you have one hour to prepare a report"... or something else not important. You are looking at it proglyadyvaya formed a lump in my throat and nod to show his agreement. He leaves, and you are at this moment looking him in the trail mentally Express all that think about it. Then was on the couch and scroll through the following thoughts — "and why he constantly gives me this job", "X he gives the lightest" etc... a Little calmer, you notice at the top of your monitor tab that says "new message" and of course like a normal person click on him and raced))).Not noticing how time flew, you see that there's only 15 minutes before the time when the chief will come back for the result. In a panic, clutching his head to begin digging up those papers. You understand that you specifically get a consequence for their disobedience to him and did the work within the specified period. Here then starts the GUILT. Then the picture is developing as follows: the chief arrives and everything he says is a solid "PIII". "iiiiiii".how can you "Toodle" ... you already do "PIII" well, etc.

I am sure that this case happened in your life repeatedly. We conclude the Lord.

But how would have turned around the situation if you in the one moment when I remembered that there's only 15 minutes before his arrival, said to myself "Oh come what may", "will you tell him I did not have time to do, because it was a bunch of other more important things," or said, "Oh, Yes, and scold the dog with him." Surprisingly, in this scenario, in 95% of cases it so happens that he himself calls and says that the deadline for implementation extended to several days, or even his friends come over and he goes somewhere and forgets about everything, or just preporucam this work to another employee.

It's as simple and in two ways in our lives.

Well, that's all, dear reader! Once again, I thank you for reading the article till the end and I sincerely believe that my tips will help you in life. Most importantly, always be yourself! Accept yourself as you are and know that ideal people on the planet! We are all not perfect and as they say everyone has their cockroaches in my head.