Parents struggling to protect children from incorrect decisions, unfortunately, it is very exigeant with teenagers. How did you find out to achieve the objectives, parents resort to tactics of intimidation. The most important that tactics of intimidation works, but only for a very short time. You can bet that at sixyear age at me and in thoughts will not have sex, knowing that I will die. But fears vanish over time. When we are small and very sensitive, your words undertake on trust. Hearing terrible things about sex and its consequences, rest assured, we will not only take them to heart, but will tell in the yard where our new knowledge will all friends. Over time, we cease to live, trusting only your words, we have our own experience. And then we realize that mom and dad might not tell us the full truth or even hide it.

When I was seven years old, I touched a hot pan and burned. Mom said that the same thing happens when you touch a vagina.

Rick, 14 years old, Salem, Ohio

So, definitely there is a new understanding of the words "she's hot".

M-Yes! And as a seven year old child can learn that mother is lying to him? All the while, Rick lived and thought the only remedy for sex is the fire extinguisher. The boy grew up and realized that mom lied, and now the only thing that turned to dust, so it is for the mother to talk with his son about sex. How can he trust her words about sex, time it already proved, what intentionally lies to him?

Mother only once gave to me advice concerning sex, and it was extremely ridiculous. When I first came monthly, I knew nothing about them. So I asked my mom, and she said, "What will happen to you every month all life. And never let any man to touch this place." That was the Council. So the next day at school I found out all her friends. Since then, if I need to know something, I asked friends. I knew that mom told me.

Mary Beth, 16 years old, Amsterdam, new York

False talk on sex with children only for a while will suppress their curiosity, then it again will appear, but already without desire to talk with you.