One woman had lunch with her teenage daughter inrestaurant, which was attended by many young mothers with their restless offspring. Four mothers were pregnant at the sixth or seventh month. Fifteen minutes of a teenage girl listening to the mother scolded her, preschool children. Eventually she perceptively asked: »Mom, if this woman so hated his children, why they want to have another child?».

Не пробудил ли вопрос этой девочки отклик в вашей душе? Большинство из нас в детстве любили играть в дочки-матери и мечтали выйти замуж за прекрасного принца или жениться на прекрасной принцессе. Реклама, которую мы видели и слышали, внушала нам, будто все, что для этого нужно, — пользоваться определенной зубной пастой. Тогда в нашей жизни обязательно появится нужный нам человек, и мы безумно влюбимся в него. Вскоре у нас родятся прелестные, замечательные малыши. Мы будем кормить их лучшим детским питанием «Пальчики оближешь», в котором настолько много пищевых добавок, что дети никогда не заболеют и не станут капризными или взбалмошными. Никто в те годы не подозревал, что в жизни могут возникнуть всякие трудности. Мы получили наименее реалистичную подготовку к самой тяжелой работе из всех, что нам приходится выполнять в жизни.

And here we have a beautiful young princess,confident that he knows all about the marriage and the upbringing of children, as she watched special television programs. All read novels inspired her that when she gets married, happiness pour broad river. But soon after, the dream became a reality on the horizon loomed the nightmare When the first child was born, the relationship with her husband had already begun to deteriorate. Married life started with such rosy hopes and with the gentle songs in their hearts! Now in life I got a serious question: why in the process of raising a child all the time is reduced satisfaction with family life?

This raised the question of whether this has ever disenchanted in your heart?

Let's look at the facts. On the chart, which we have included in this chapter clearly shows that marriage satisfaction is reduced by half by the time when the house there are children. In families where children grow up, happiness continues to decrease and falls to the lowest level, when children reach adolescence

Most people believe that they will experiencethe highest satisfaction from marriage toward the end of his life. Their assumption is based on the fact that the longer the couple live together, the stronger will be their desire to multiply the happiness of each other. But this is true only for those couples who have found happiness and so inlife together. It is unlikely that the pair have never experienced great happiness in marriage, suddenly feel happy because their children have left home. Although this chart shows the results of numerous studies, not every couple passes the same stages, but most couples overcome all of these stages, if you do not spend a lot of time and effort to prepare for marriage and parenthood. Therefore, it is important that at every stage of the pair can identify and understand the cause of the disruption or strained marital relations.