How should manifest the character of the child? Next, we analyze in detail the six basic aspects of nature. In fact, this analysis constitutes the main task of our work. But now we want to briefly describe these aspects. Read the list below and think about how your child functions in all these areas. No matter how many years it is now - for all age groups in every area there is a special problem, the implementation of which will help your child to reach maturity.

Attachment. The main thing is the overriding nature of the property - itthe ability to form relationships. Life itself is due to the attachment of two people. Our love for God and others - the source of all wealth. Children should learn how to be in need of the other, to trust them, rely on them and feel compassion for them. When a child falls and scrapes his knee, and you start to comfort him, you are helping him on his own experience to understand how important it is to ask for support.

A responsibility. The baby is born with the feeling that his lifefully meet other people. Initially, the way it is, but the strengthening character over time will allow your child to take responsibility for their lives themselves and perceive their lives as their problem. Independently responsible for their choice, the child gradually learns and freedom, and self-control.

Реальность. This aspect of the character determines the ability ofchild to take the negative side of the real world. Friends and even parents can at some point to bring it, and he just will not let down the other. You need to help your child learn how to relate to the losses of sin, failure and evil in himself and in others, and the world at large.

Competence. Ребенок нуждается в подготовке, которая позволит ему развить в себе дарованные Богом таланты, причем требуется усовершенствовать специальные навыки в области не только искусств, спорта или наук, но и повседневной жизни, навыки принятия решения, правильного суждения, трудовую этику.

Conscience. The process of spiritual growth is accompanied by the strengthening of the internal understanding of good and evil. Conscience child goes through various stages of development, depending on its age.

Религия. Ребенок создан по образу Божьему. Некоторые исполняемые им задания способствуют его духовному развитию: так, ребенка нужно приучить к мысли, что Бог любит его и заботится о нем. Ребенок должен также научиться искать Бога самостоятельно, а не вместе с родителями.

You can respond differently to this analysisthe main character faces. The volume and complexity of the tasks assigned to you for raising a child may seem prohibitive, or, on the contrary, you will rejoice the fact that now acquired instructions to help you organize the process of education. You may be alarmed problems discovered in one or another sphere of nature. Maybe this list will cause you to think about the imperfections of your own nature. In truth, any of these reactions is quite empowered.

It should be noted that all these aspects of the character -a reflection of the attributes of God Himself. God has love and affection (cf. John 3:16). God himself is responsible for his life (see Psalm 63: 9). God recognizes the realities of the world (see Psalm 9:13.) God is more than competent in everything, He does (see Genesis 1:31.) God alone is able to completely separate the good from evil (see Genesis 3:22.), and finally, God lives in eternity (see Revelation 4: 9-10.).

Различие между нами и Богом заключается в том, что Бог обладает этими чертами характера постоянно, а вам еще только предстоит воспитать их в своем ребенке. Разумеется, ребенок обладает и неким врожденным темпераментом, одни дети склонны преимущественно к внешней активности, другие погружены во внутреннюю жизнь, но в любом случае человек не рождается с готовым характером. Главная цель воспитания, альфа и омега всего вашего родительского труда — помочь развить характер, который станет основой души и жизни вашего ребенка.