If in your family broken communication, you need toto rectify the situation. If it is not broken, be careful, as if suddenly it did not happen, for a truly unfortunate that the family, in which there is no mutual understanding. Do not let the small differences from degenerating into strife; get rid of them while they are small and their moleno eliminate. Do not allow a child to have harbored anger that will corrode it from within and can break out in the coming years. Scripture gives the following instruction:

»Let not the sun go down upon your wrath» (Eph. 4:26).

It applies to both parents and children. Heal the scratches until they heal easily, do not let them grow into deep wounds.

The initiative in restoring the disturbed communicationIt is in your hands, in the hands of mature adult. Hardly it is important, how the child act ignited your anger. You made a mistake, let it go and break doing nothing to restore normal communication. Find a way to make contact with their offspring. First, you should rely on good language subject, that is, on all kinds of good deeds by which you tell the child that still love him, that your love for him is endless. Most teens respond better deeds than words. Then use active listening and I-statements.

Perhaps, after experimenting with activehearing and »I-statements» you could not solve all the problems of communication, but if you are, perhaps, the first time to find his parents practice that really understand how the child relates to his and your problems, then you have succeeded. In order to establish good contact with young people is not necessarily every day to comment on all the events happening in their lives. You just nice to talk to every day. Many parents feel that they have lost contact with their children, because their house is no longer heard incessant chatter. However, the constant talk may be just cover old problem, has long taken deep roots. True communication takes place in the event that you have made contact with the child and strengthen their ability to take him as a person with all the rights, needs and values.

There is no magic panacea to curedestroyed communication. Further, the presence of the best contact does not release parents from the daily thorough analysis of it in order to preserve and cultivate the most positive. If parents and children treat each other with respect and considered the feelings of each other, the gap between the generations is gradually reduced and then disappears.