character. The word itself has many nuances and different meanings. Personality. This concept adds another complex dimension to the picture. But if the picture really focused on the optimal sharpness?
When we say that a child is delightful, we havereferring to his good manners, visual appeal, charm and good nature. His winning behavior makes a good impression on us. But the character - it's much more than just visual appeal. Calling lovely person, we are talking only about his external behavior. The character - is a moral category,which includes concepts such as honesty, self-control, compassionate attitude towards others, spirituality, moral ideals, conscience, and the ability to control their passions. Word character It comes from the Greek word meaning »imprinting.» It is a measure of a man certain traits or characteristics that affect his way of life.
A newborn baby has no character. However, it has the potential or the raw material for the development of character. That is why an active character formation begins at birth. Over time, the different qualities are developed in man, which is created from the sum of his character.
All faces and installation, subsequently developing in character, digested during life. Consequently, all that we know about the learning process, should apply to the development of character. That is why the responsibility for character development lies entirely on the shoulders of parents. Excuses such as »bad genes» does not stand up to scrutiny. If your child has a bad temper, the parents are to blame either themselves or the environment in which the child is brought up.
Since the formation of the fruit characterappear at once (many parents bring them solely to the obedience or disobedience of the child), mothers and fathers often do not pay enough attention to the development of the character of their child or inconsistently engaged in this business, anyhow. However, it should pay attention to the long-term value, rather than the short-term results
In the first years of life the character of developing the mostat a rapid pace, and it is therefore easier to manage a child's development process. Horace Bushnell recommends »Let all Christian parents realize that when a child turns three years old, his character has already been formed by more than half.» Studies show that the phase from six months to five years - a period of active knowledge of the world and the very rapid formation of character. Sometimes parents conclude from this that in this period they need to boost the mental development of the child. Many parents who want their child to shine in front of other children for their own benefit, trying in different ways to stimulate the thinking of his son. Some do their best to their child is two years old could read in three years - typing, and four - to speak a foreign language. There is nothing wrong with the baby to stimulate specific interests, but at a rate of mental development will bring nothing but disappointment bursts. Such an approach does not create ideal conditions for learning.
Each parent may be sure that theinfant years has laid the rudiments of nature and the child is experiencing the impact of many factors. Too often, the mother falls into the trap of following reasoning: »My child does not need me at this stage. He can not tell me from a nurse. » However, the child sensitively captures the surrounding atmosphere.
Home environment is particularly important for the normalchild development. If parents do not respect each other, if they all the time quarrel, jealous or not telling the truth when they fight for power and influence in the home, their child will not develop normally, no matter how hard they may try to hide their problem.
Следовательно, самое главное для развития характера ребенка заключается в том, чтобы родители ценили друг друга и относились друг к другу со взаимной любовью и уважением Ребенок, подобно зеркалу, будет отражать те черты характера, которые он видит изо дня в день.
