Today, many women complain: »Where are all the normal men? Or drinking and unreliable, either already married! »Yes, I want it to anything to protest, but there is nothing. Recently, a man really changed. It was previously thought that the man - the head of the family breadwinner. What now? Now, many themselves something can not provide, not to mention family and children, or rather, do not want to. And to blame the women themselves.
Since ancient times, the woman was considered weak, fragile,defenseless, it is to create a cosiness in the house, raising children. Therefore, men have tried to comply, to be strong, reliable, take responsibility for the family. However, at some point, the woman revealed that too can be strong, to earn money and to drive in nails. And it was the biggest mistake of her ...
The woman wanted to be on a par with men. And what came of it? Strong floor, he saw that a woman is capable almost all, has suddenly decided that it will be able to cope with everything and very kindly and shifted all the responsibility and all its responsibilities on her frail shoulders. Today's society finds it unacceptable if the woman stays at home and raises the children, it in this reproach: »How so? You are children, go to work! »And a lot of women, long before the end of the maternity leave in a hurry to find a job, because her husband difficult to provide one family. Yes, at the moment everything is very expensive, so in order to provide for his family, both parents have to work. That's just. ... Many men for some reason decided that if a woman can do anything, then the family will be able to provide it too. The result is that the girl left school and goes to college, building a career, then married and faced with the fact that her husband is not very much and tends to earn more. He believes that if she can normally make, let and provides the family, but he is better rested on the earned money from friends, even without having to worry about whether his children are fed, if all they have - because he knows exactly what mom take care of them. Yes, of course, not all men are like that, but something in recent times such families is becoming more and more.
All this led to the fact that men have lost the status of »miners» and in everyday life, even coined the term »landlord»!
Yes, and not so long ago, our society became acquainted witha new word »gigolo». In a nutshell, it's a whole generation of men who live entirely by women. So how do you avoid falling into their trap? Let's try out some distinctive features gigolo:
1. Flawless appearance.
2. The manner of communication - when meeting polite, courteous, generous with compliments.
3. Behavior - he is generous with words (but not on the gifts), always around it agrees with you.
4.To recognize gigolo finally, try to ask about his personal life, work or profession and observe his reactions - such men usually do not like this kind of questions. Or told him about some of the difficulties at work and ask him to help you a little bit of material. If it relates to the very type of man, he then removes his mask, and you can see what it really is.
But do not think that all men are the sameand no time, good, smart, reliable. ... In fact, they are still living among us, women. Maybe we just look bad or not there looking for. No need to wait for a »prince on a white horse», because ideal people do not exist. You just need to live and enjoy life, and if your significant other in a short time there herself. And who knows, maybe the most favorite and only for you would be a neighbor or a former classmate in front of, or an old acquaintance. ... Learn to appreciate what you have, you do not need a lifetime to race, trying to catch the tail of a ghostly and unattainable happiness.
