All we women dream about at any agemutual love. We are waiting for princes or, in extreme cases, try to »sculpt» them from the men, that we have got. If patience is over - divorce is inevitable. And again we are waiting for the love and the prince, but now are not alone with our closest relatives and creatures - our children from his first marriage.
Larissa (26y.o.)
»He seemed to be the best and most courageous. Of course, because it was the subject of dreams all the girls from first to fifth year (and even some of the teachers). And I chose something was me, from this self-esteem simply sings and rejoices, growing to a universal scale. Well, let mama warned that should think and do not need to hurry. As it is, do not rush! What if it's too late? What prevents marry right now? All the best disassemble and remains-what? Of course, there are some lucky people who met each other in high school, are together for life, but it is rather an exception. Yet even among the artistic world are there - look at Jon Bon Jovi - handsome, and an exemplary family man. But this is not always the case. At some point I realized that I did not see, not hear, and do not appreciate. The family boat there was a hole, followed by further recriminations and divorce. That procedure is still, well, if we can go through it with adequate effort and nerves. Elizabeth Gilbert accurately all described in his book »Eat, Pray, Love.» And here I am alone again, no, we are now one - me and my baby ...
And what's next?
Life - an interesting thing, it is like a bigthe vinaigrette. All the ingredients are mixed, add new ones, and, bam! it turns out very tasty. The main thing - do not despair. Remember the saying »better luck next time» - she can just about your first marriage? Many women have found their happiness was with her second husband, and about the first marriage, and even do not want to remember. After all, judge for yourself, you come to a new relationship is completely different, the changed. Do not forget that every life experience is invaluable, and your case with a bad marriage, too. And let you paid for it dearly - in despair, disappointment and rivers of tears. But. You become wiser, and (hopefully) now have a better understanding of the people.
A NEW EFFECT? EACH - BEST C? THE COMMONWEALTH OF LONELINESS
Each new encounter enriches our lives. you often, and not rely on the familiarity, but somehow things are going and turns. But just do not want to have now absolutely »in the pool with his head.» The idea that this time you need to make things right, does not rest, making even pay attention to detail. As will happen next, you're not alone? The people say: »if you want a woman, a man is required to take and her child.» New relations are developing. And by meeting a new friend, an acquaintance seems to have mentally new elect with your child. And yet for some reason, I think, where he is still a bachelor apartment is convenient to arrange the children's room. But the doubt - is now the most important enemies, although understandable, and fears were not in vain, from the moment of first meeting depends on many things. Would be great if the two like each other. Successful first encounter - a pledge of future marital happiness.
