While you're ready for a serious conversation, your man is probably looking for a place to hide from him. Of-Md explains how to be heard and to discuss the relationship without scandals.
At the beginning of the novel really takes any girlBuddhist patience. She meekly juggles mops, eliminating the effects of a tornado named Alex, who left the floor pa ketchup stains, and under the sofa -gryaznye shirts. She loved approving pats on the shoulder, when, instead of sex that evening he wrote reports and preparing a presentation, and even for some time does not pay attention to the fact that the work of the search turned into a prolonged vacation on the system »all inclusive».
But the indulgence and understanding - exhaustibleresources. And once this exemplary lady, under which each of us and tries to masquerade, possessed the desire to speak. I do not know what your experience is, and my intention to »calmly discuss everything» somehow brought her boyfriend to escape to his parents. At three o'clock in the morning. In winter. The sweat pants and sneakers.
From preventive conversation about the benefits of healthylifestyle, we quietly went to the skirmish. »I am a free man, that I want, I do.» - »So you have a bachelor» (caustically.) - »I do not mean it that way» (discouraged). And - attention! - My final blow: »I'll stay as long as my mother.» He generously gave me a safe place and returned to his father's house.
The next morning a lovely lady and wept, ie,I had to apologize not only to the favorite, but in front of all his household, including the cat. This event turned me from argumentative dilettante-master in negotiating Arts, which breaks down the wall of misunderstanding a word.
Well, took out a pen and a notebook - now I'm going to share the experience.
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ТЫ ГОВОРИШЬ: «Ты пропускаешь мои слова мимо ушей!»
He hears: »I screamed, and I repeat the same idea for the ninth time, and you probably fantasize about sex? Nothing you do not get! »ТЫ ГОВОРИШЬ: «Ты обещал, что изменишься!»
He hears: »Why do not you become the same as my classmate Vova, who bought a house in Spain and offered me to marry him?»ТЫ ГОВОРИШЬ: «Ты меня не любишь!»
He hears: »I am going to go to the bathroom to cry, and you will have time to run for a bouquet, roast duck with pineapple and write laudatory poems in my honor.»
Content:
1. Introduction (You read that section);
2. The subscriber is not a subscriber;
3. There is a contact!.
