The man as the head of the family unit

Category: the Art of being a parent | 07 ноября 2015, 19:40

A good father is necessarily incursresponsible for the management of the family unit and the teaching of family members. This role of the man is not the result of chance, custom or tradition, it approved through the Bible, God inspired the authors. Numerous studies show that the family, respecting his father as the head, less prone to emotional difficulties, and vice versa,

Однако «руководство» не означает диктаторское и безоговорочное господство мужчины, к чему так стремятся некоторые мужья. Руководство семьей — это обязанность не только мужа, но и wives. It is not one-sided as manyimagined for centuries, and does not mean that the husband is always in command, and his wife meekly obey him. If a family has a mutual support, the husband carries a »soft» leadership.

A wise man understands the position of the wife in differentissues and does not impose unreasonable requirements or her children. He is sensitive to the needs of each family member. Perhaps he does not always fulfill the whims of his wife, but is struggling to be fair to her and the children. He is considered a member of each family feelings, trying to understand their views on each issue and recognizes the rights of all. Kind-hearted and righteous leader always polite, sensitive and responsive. Family feels safe under his wise leadership.

When a man does not assume leadershipfunctions, it is fraught with many challenges, for example, if the parents are changed over, the child often becomes a rebel and commit offenses. Recent studies have shown that mother-chairwoman often confusing son, striving for self-realization. A study of unmarried fathers, found that 85 per cent were brought up in families in which the mother played a dominant role, or in families where there were no fathers.