The second reason why children turn toDrugs, is the desire to remove emotional problems. »As a rule, young people who use drugs, have serious emotional problems, causing serious damage to their health. The greatest need of the teenager is the solution of these problems », - says the psychologist.
The specialist told about a girl addicted to drugs and pleaded: »The first time I found friends who love me. Please do not take them from me. » The psychologist explains: »We This girl was not a single true friendbefore she joined the group of drug addicts. The only thing required of her group members in exchange for a friendship - with them to use drugs. The drugs themselves are not interested in the girl, but she longed to have friends, and became so involved in all the activities of this group. »
This psychologist has found that many teenagersdependence on drugs are »out of luck and desperately lonely children. They never found a friendly and sympathetic attitude, do not achieve success in school, in sports, their peers ... They find themselves only when attached to other children suffering from the same problems. »
Most people use drugs for theremove anxiety, because they do not hurt so much when they are in the narcotic euphoria. A young man sitting on heroin, told: »You absolutely do not understand what I'm saying; you always feel good, but I prefer to pay $ 100 per day, only to temporarily relieve mental anguish. »
Therefore there is nothing surprising in the fact thatdrugs are so popular among teenagers. They need comfort and encouragement, and they are easy to confuse people who say if the drugs will open the door for them in a totally amazing and incredible world.
In the book »The trial of the parents,» David WilkersonIt tells the story of Nicky Cruz - a child who was raised by a street and which reminds him of the many families who live without love. When Nicky was four years old, he overheard a conversation between his mother and the other women with a cup of tea. During the conversation, the mother said the words that have left an open wound in his heart: »In fact, Nicky was born at us randomly. It would be better if it we did not. » As Nicky felt unloved child, then he ran away from home and lived like a wild animal as long as David Wilkerson did not find it with the help of the organization 'Call to teenagers. » Currently, Nike is the assistant Wilkerson.
People prone to neurosis, sensing his owninadequacy, feeling like outcasts, who are in danger, other more vulnerable to drug addiction; At the same time, if the addict has some hidden neurosis, drugs can bring it out. Is there anything in this world is something that can help young people burdened with emotional problems and feel alienated? Is there something that will help them cope with their daily challenges? There is any society other than drug addicts society in which they will be treated favorably, and where they will be warm and friendly? Potential addict adolescence looking for something that is already with other teens, namely the house in which felt approving and friendly attitude. Emotionally stable teenager most of the day can not be in the immediate presence of their parents, but in his heart he is sure of parental love. They gave him a particle of themselves and their possessions, and he knows that they have business with him, he was sure that if he needs parents, he may at any time to return to them.
