From point A man went to B. Item A - a childhood. Item B - maturity. The road from the man did not close, and it is called - the transition period. Some run on this road skipping. Some barely trailing. It all depends on the characteristics of the body of the man.
- I often quarrel with my parents
Transitional age - a very difficult time to how toadolescents and their parents. Most of the conflicts in the family was due to the fact that teenagers are trying to win back the right to independence and self-reliance, and the parents treat their grown-up children still like to small. And still trying to control their behavior, behavior, environment. In this war, two generations as well, there are no winners. You can defend your opinion, you can gradually expand the area of its independence, but in any case it is not necessary to break relationships with loved ones.
Very often quarrels arise out of nowhere and,according to psychologists, from boredom. So take time your child an interesting pastime for him - for example, give a sports club, a dance or even model-agency (for more details on the model school website TOP SECRET kids - topsecretkids.ru).
- I hesitate to undress before my parents
And that's OK! You grew up you entered the time of puberty. And with the changes your body is changing your mind. The feeling of shame aggravated, but that still seemed quite innocent yesterday, today, it has become an intimate color for you. But parents can not guess about your suffering. They do not understand why you suddenly began to feel uncomfortable in their presence. After all, you have to remain a child. Even already whiskered and hairy!
- Mom without knocking enters my room. It annoys me!
And my mother is angry that you have emerged from theher secrets. Why else would you be locked in his room? The secret really is, but it is very simple: young people 11 - 12 years old want a bit of independence and autonomy. Increased interest in the mother to the closed door of your room is perceived by you as surveillance, as interference in private life. What to do? Try to calmly discuss the problem, to reassure the parents, explaining to them that you're not doing anything reprehensible behind the closed door of his room. Suppose, in the end. take their lead from you! You never walk into my parents' room without knocking. Is not it?
- I do not want to share my secrets with my parents.
Often teens trust their secrets are not the mostnear and dear people and friends, classmates, or even casual acquaintances. But in difficult situations for them also go for help or advice. And it is in vain! It is a lot of trouble could have been avoided by talking with parents. After all, they know you much better than on the part of advisers. And in spite of all the things in the friction differences, quarrels and conflicts, parents - the best and the good are your friends.
-? Auditors do not understand me!
No no! They perfectly understand you, but that's just not always aware that their child has grown. What range of interests has become much wider. You grow up quickly, grow up by leaps and bounds, and parents continue to treat you like a little child. The more that you have survived childhood habits and your behavior is sometimes far from the adult acts.
