Paradoxically, we often muchvisualize their professional or financial problems, rather than education goals. One of the problems in establishing the ultimate goal of education lies in the fact that the child also has the right to vote and its presentation may differ from the parent. Besides, the education process is so complex that it is difficult to constantly hold in the long-term mean. Like a fireman, who was forced to fill in at the same time a lot of sources of ignition, you head immersed in the concerns of the day.
But if someone were to ask you, what purpose you are putting yourself, you could choose anything from listed below.
Survival. Stay on the surface. For example, the financial or marital problems can keep the parents in a state of crisis. The whole problem boils down to, to survive this day. It is easy to guess how this situation affects the child's welfare.
Independence. Научить ребенка самодостаточности. «Лишь бы мне удалось вырастить их, чтобы они ушли в свою жизнь» — таким часто бывает боевой девиз родителей подростков. Разумеется, научить ребенка самостоятельности — это важная задача, однако немало людей, которые вполне способны работать и справляться с повседневными задачами жизни, испытывают трудности в других областях, в частности, при выборе друзей или спутника жизни.
Useful skills. To teach children everything that can be useful to them inlife - that is the slogan of our times. To ensure the future of their children, »soccer parents» exhausting their sports games, circles or social activities. All weekends are dedicated to games and competitions. Children, of course, acquire useful skills, learn to work in a team and to live in society, but they may lack in other areas of life; lack of love and intimacy, family life and spiritual values.
The ability to cope with problems. Научиться решать проблемы «по мере поступления». Родители стараются разобраться с проблемами в поведении, учебе, отношениях. Хорошим родителям приходится иметь дело с тысячами проблем, но за некоторыми трудностями порой скрывается более серьезный диагноз. Например, ребенок учится плохо потому, что у него произошли сбои в процессе развития или он переживает какой-то семейный конфликт. Возможно, дело в эмоциональной или интеллектуальной незрелости либо в том, что ребенок страдает от депрессии, вызванной раздором между родителями. Приступая к разрешению проблем, нужно руководствоваться определенной иерархией ценностей и безусловными принципами.
Moral. Teach your children to be good. By this it will be remembered, he sought to Tony. He wanted his daughter Hallie was »a good man1'Increased net girl with true ideals. However, as we shall see, morality - is not a very simple matter. If parents do their moral education only task, it can lead to problems - increased sense of guilt or, on the contrary, the propensity to censure or ill-functioning.
Религиозная жизнь. Most parents want to focusGod became life for their children. We dream about our children to love God and follow His ways. But if religious education does not recognize such spiritual aspects of life like helping children in their real life, it does not reach its goal, and parents is only with a heavy heart to watch your children learn the Word of God, but do not accept it and do not use it In my life.
