The teenager enters the world of courtship and romance, now more than ever, concerned with social adaptation. This is normal and should be encouraged this process (we strongly object to the widespread tendency to condemn teenage Dating). You see, the process of entering the society was normal. Adolescents should participate in various groups and activities according to their inclinations, to go on dates, fall in love. If the teenager is okay, he will develop a permanent company, and you will see his buddies and hear about them. Try to meet and make friends with his friends, they open their home — let them feel in it freely and comfortably. If a teenager can invite friends, it will combine "his own life" with family.
All of these trends is quite natural manifestation of the growing ability of a teenager to live in society. However, waiting for him, and hard — watch carefully not to miss them and in time to help him. If any of the elements of life in society is missing, we need to talk with the child. Maybe the teenager considers himself unattractive and does not dare to care for the girl but maybe he needs advice or help. It also happens that the child is experiencing grief, which does not dare to tell you. Ask yourself why he is silent. Is there any reason why he is afraid to be honest with you? If such a reason is, it is primary a problem for you.
But when you will permit, we must help the child to overcome the obstacle, about which he stumbled. Sometimes the fact that it will take another age barrier, and sometimes parents are the first to notice an impending problem. If you know that some features of character of your son or daughter can deprive them of their friends or first love, we have to warn them about it. You will provide your child the greatest favor, forcing him to look at PA, his problem, not leaving him alone in the face of guilt, without depriving him of its support.




