For many generations, the word masturbation It caused fear and shame. Just a few decades ago, experts have said that masturbation causes mental disorders, blindness, deafness, epilepsy, baldness, weight loss, weakness and infertility. If the child were caught doing this, it usually was beaten severely and warned that he would go to hell if it is to continue to do it. Special chastity belt for boys was invented not ever, and in the XX century., And can be purchased in many stores. Another method of getting rid of the child from this most terrible of all the habits that had special aluminum mittens, which have put the child at night. Some parents resorted to handcuffs. There was even invented a special call to the parents' bedroom, which rang whenever the boy an erection, then the father rushed to the nursery to save a child from himself! Sometimes parents have resorted to such extremes as the removal of the clitoris in girls or the labia majora, and then sutured. Boys also operated.
Now experts say thatmasturbation - it is normal for the growing child. Almost all of the boys and at least 75 per cent of girls manipulate their genitals at any given time during adolescence, because that show that it is possible to experience a pleasant feeling, touching, squeezing or rubbing the genitals. In many cases, masturbation is only due to the fact that the child wants to get better acquainted with your body; however, some children resort to masturbation, trying to compensate for the lack of love and attention.
Маловероятно, что мастурбация вызывает такое множество страшных болезней, которые ей раньше приписывали; вместе с тем она может оказывать пагубное влияние на чувство собственного достоинства, характер и нравственность ребенка. Манипулирование половыми органами иной раз становится причиной уныния, раздражительности и ревности. Ребенок начинает сильно страдать от угрызений совести и считать себя нравственно деградировавшей личностью.
Continuous masturbation can undermine the strength of the whole body and cause depression. Focusing on yourself onanist can lose sight of spiritual values.
When parents discover that their childhandjob, do not threaten him with punishment, condemn or embarrass him. They need to explore what he plays and what does in his spare time. Does he do enough exercise? Does he have time for games? Does it have appropriate toys and designers from which you can build something, and that you can throw, pull, push and make them any manipulation? If the child is old enough, find out if he has any hobbies? whether he is interested in sports, music and different types of Christian ministry? If he feels kindness, love and good attitude from others? Well if it sits on the clothing? whether his body clean? No. Does he have skin irritation?
As a teenager, masturbate more oftenIt takes on a whole different meaning. It is not just satisfy children's curiosity and helps the child to experience the simple pleasure, but it carries a deeper meaning of sex. The teenager has more than twelve years of living with my body, but now he feels a new motivation, physical sensations and moods as being awakened his sexual response and performance.
The most serious damage caused by masturbation -this feeling of guilt that arises in a child known .sluchai when young people commit suicide on this ground, because they considered themselves too weak and sinful, unworthy to live. Young people need to understand that when they are older enough, their sexual concepts will become more meaningful. They must learn that true sexual satisfaction is a result of deep need to give, not take. They need to understand that the real satisfaction can be experienced only in the relationship with the other person, which are based on love, but not alone, only humouring his body. After all, God created man and woman is for the mutual relations.
Родителям нужно понять, что вопрос мастурбации сильно волнует ребенка, хотя это одна из самых трудных для обсуждения тем. Кто способен правильно понять данный вопрос? Родители в состоянии помочь своему ребенку, заверив его, что ничего плохого в его организме не происходит. Они не должны усугублять у него чувство вины, ненависти к себе или сознание личной деградации. В то же время они обязаны подчеркнуть необходимость управлять собой и своими сексуальными инстинктами.
Как правило, мастурбирующий ребенок — это несчастный и встревоженный человечек. Возможно, у него мало друзей и мало возможностей наслаждаться нормальными детскими забавами. Мастурбация в данном случае не является причиной, вызывающей те или иные расстройства, но симптомом того, что в жизни конкретного ребенка не все благополучно. Родителям следует создавать для такого ребенка хорошие игровые ситуации и следить, чтобы он получал удовольствие от активных игр. Нужно поручать ему достойную домашнюю работу, хвалить его за хорошо выполненные задания и за усилия, которые он прилагает для их выполнения. Следует активно включать ребенка в семейные развлекательные мероприятия. Если и после этого его поведение не изменится, будет разумно проконсультироваться у профессионала.
It is necessary to teach the child to restrain sexualgusts. If he does not learn to control yourself, you can grow cruel, selfish, greedy and undisciplined. The great danger arises when parents are desperately trying to help your child to restrain sexual impulses, they go in one of two extremes and begin to either too hard to control it, or do not teach him to restrain his impulses.