When someone in the family is misbehaving, spoilsproperty or provoke a fight, but you can not identify the guilty party, put all on an equal footing. If a dispute arises at the table, tell them to all the children to get out of the table and not to return until until they reconcile. Do not worry about what you can punish the innocent along with the guilty, and pay no attention to the protests. If you put a child in the same conditions, to reach them, that they depend Friend
on the other, and the children will take care of each other.

Another simple method of restraint stormy watersIt is active listening. Discussion of various objects - this is a useful measure, particularly in view of the fact that children find it difficult to separate fact from fiction. Bad thoughts often seem to them the same bad as things. »Bob, I understand how you feel. We all sometimes have low feelings »- so mom can start.

If the argument is usually happen closer to the dinner,when children are tired or hungry, my mother can early to call them to the table, and then read them aloud some story. The procedure for sandwiches or some mystery can calm children. Other interesting activities, such as the molding of the clay, dressing up in different costumes, masquerades and puppet shows, help children to express their feelings. To direct competition in a constructive direction, you need a lot of time, effort and imagination, but the reward you will establish good relations in the family.